Song stuck in my head for 15 years, lyrics go, why iam i so bitter, why are you so cold, why is all you ask..?

This song has been stuck in my head for 15 plus years I have searched everywhere and everything it was in was between 92-96 and I think it was on some kind of compilation cd, the refrain goes why am I so bitter, why are you so cold, why is all you ask from life seems to take up all you soul. the song starts out with a kinda rap sounding beat but turns to all alternative guitar, i have reserved that i will never find out the name and band of this song, help please, it is driving me crazy!